I am in a relationship with a very cute guy. We have been together for a year now, and I moved in around 6 months back with him.
I get this terrible feeling that he loves me more than I love him.
He’s a very nice person, we are very compatible, and I love him, yes I do.
But I also fancy other guys too.
I found this other guy to be quite cute on biggercity, and I met him today. I did not lie to him, I told him that I have a boyfriend, and he’s single. I told him I just want to be mates, as he’s new to London and he’s also kinda feeling lonely and stuff.
We met for coffee, had a laugh and stuff. And then we went for a movie - Avatar :) And I couldn’t help staring at him. We had another coffee after the movie, and I hugged him before I left, thanking him for a great time.
I don’t know how he feels about me. But I certainly have a big crush on him. I feel absolutely restless now.
My boyfriend is on a holiday. I have no intentions to betray him. Part of it is also due to my loneliness because I don’t have many friends here in London. Everytime I go out is with my boyfriend and his mates.
I don’t know. I’m just terribly confused what should I do. Do you guys have any suggestions?
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I think everyone has those feelings, I know I do. Your always going to be attracted to other men. Just remember your boyfriend is the one you have an emotional connection with, while others guys your just lusting after. Being friends with someone attractive is hard but not impossible. I’ve been in your situation a few times, it was easier because the guys I was attracted to were straight. If its really a problem you may just not be able to hang out with your new friend.
I don’t know how open you and your boyfriend are but maybe you could bring your friend in on some action, and kinda get it out of your system. That could always cause more problems, but I don’t know what your guys’ relationship is like.
know exactly how you feel....every so often. The feelings of infatuation
It is perfectly natural to still be attracted to other men. Its not a switch that you can just flick on and off. You...
think everyone has those feelings,...Your always going